Jford, thanks for understanding and accepting my apology.
If I were in your shoes, I believe I would choose a solid-state phono stage and there are some decent ones available like the Lehmann Black Cube, the Phonomenon, and probably a few others worthy of consideration. Perhaps other A-goners can give you more good suggestions for solid-state contenders. Your situation is actually ideal for adding a solid-state phono because you have tubes ahead of it in your signal path. That way, some of the bass slam and high-frequency detail will come through and your Cary amp will add that midrange sweetness. If you use tubes, noise becomes an issue and the other issue is, as I said previously, compounding the tube colorations in your chain of electronics.
If you did choose a tube phono stage, I would go for one with a minimum of tubes (like one for each channel). I had the original Herron tube phono stage in my system once and liked it very much. I thought it was very accurate and musical, but these tend to be a little pricey, even on the used market.
As for a turntable choice, I think the VPI Scout with the 9" JMW arm is a very worthy contender. You may even find a used TNT Jr at a good price that could be better still. I owned a Michell Gyro SE for a while and thought that it offered great bang for the buck too. Plus, the Gyro's aesthetic appeal, smallish footprint, and high WAF is undeniable. One of the aforementioned VPI TT's with a JMW arm (recent versions are best), or alternately, something like a Rega RB 600 Silver would be very good choices in my view. If you're on a tight budget, you'd be surprised how good an old AR belt-drive with a modest arm and a Grado MM cartridge can sound...
Best regards,
Frank :)