Ray, I was at a local dealer on the weekend and heard the Paradigm J8's (i think that was the model, it might have been S8...$6000 for the pair).
They had all anthem electronics and a $3500 Paradigm sub. The room was heavily treated with ASC gear, over $9,000 in treatments according to the sales guy. The system sounded incredible, I didn't know Paradigm gear sounded this good. The sound was warm and full, yet punchy and dynamic at the same time. Bass was incredible and the stage seemed to be 20' deep on some recordings.
Keep it up with the room treatments, it's definately the way to get the most out of your investment in equipment.
Rooze