it sounds as though the distinction loxodrome is trying to make is that for some, the hobby can devolve into little more than an unhealthy, obsessive escape that isolates, rather than an experience that opens our eyes and helps us grow. although it's hard to pinpoint exactly what constitutes the difference, surely there's a distinction in there worth making. is your 'chair' just an escape from reality, or does it help you see into it? it's a question worth pondering.
as Robert Ashley says (with Jaqueline Humbert's lovely voice): "You have to learn to keep your mouth shut about, something that is part of you even if it is, pleasureable, lest that part get in the way of, having the pleasure of the other parts. That's harder than you think . . . "