Congrats on the purchase, I hope it meets your expectations!
In my experience,there are some things the 2a3 does better than the 45 in amps, like the macro-dynamics and thrust. But for tonality, pureness, and mid-range, to my ears there's no comparison. With that said, I've never tried the NOS 2a3's or the EML 2a3's so take my comments with a grain of salt. Maybe Lukasz or one of the Lamp guys can offer some advice.
I think you made a great choice, and for the L7 to come stock with the world renown EML 45 is really awesome! I wouldn't worry about heat, both these tubes run pretty warm compared to the big 300b's and 845's.
I would love to roll in different caps at some time just to compare. Let me know how the Jupiter's sound. I thought the Jensen's sounded great too in the L4.
Sounds like your L7 will be fully decked out, that's really cool. Maybe someday I will source some Yamamoto teflon sockets, those are really sweet and high quality. I haven't used any expensive fuses like the Synergistic, but felt the Create Audio fuse made a worthwhile difference ($10 shipped on Ebay). But I've heard from several folks that I trust say that the Quantum fuses are definitely worth the coin. Go for it and report back!