I have to say that I really like all of your gear. I have an I-7 in my system on loan for audition and my pair of c-4's will be here on friday. BUT certainly you can find a better "room" to put your gear in. there is no way you can get the soundstage to be even close to realistic size and the closet interactions with the speakers must be horrible. Man i gotta tell you i humbly say that you are wasting 15-20K worth of gear. Please speak to your wife about putting the system in a reasonably sized location. If your system was in a location where it could breath I am sure you would be blown away by the impact and soundstage that the Dyns can do in the right environment.
This is just my two cents and hope you can get your own space to enjoy what is a really nice setup.